Fuck happiness! Forget feeling good and focus on being better by Consciousnesses

Profanity Alert I appreciate many and various perspectives, as I have only recently begun to observe beyond my own. Take what you can use and dump the rest

Care, Bliss and the Universe

The difference between a good life and a bad life is how well you walk through the fire.” ~Carl Jung

Fuck positivity. Fuck feelings. Fuck trying to make yourself feel good all the time. Focus instead on becoming a better version of yourself. Focus on action. Better yet, be proactive. It’s less about feeling positive and more about positive action. Even then, it’s less about being great and more about being better. Indeed. There’s more happiness in a spoonful of hard-earned self-improvement than in an ocean-full of self-affirmations.

Positivity is the opposite of motivation:

“May your trails be crooked, winding, lonesome, dangerous, leading to the most amazing view. May your mountains rise into and above the clouds.” ~Edward Abbey

Here’s the thing: there’s nothing wrong with being happy. When you’re happy, be grateful. Soak it up. Absorb it. Balls to bones. Ovaries to marrow. But then let that shit go…

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Published by jeffw5382

Stumbling spiritual pilgrim on my way from here to here. Recovered Addict, US Navy Veteran. Sharing my journey of self discovery, in the spirit of service, generosity and gratitude.

19 thoughts on “Fuck happiness! Forget feeling good and focus on being better by Consciousnesses

  1. This post is very much where I am in my life. If you read my last post you will see that I speak truth. Again I find myself in an excruciatingly painful place in my life yet I am determined to turn that pain into new growth in myself and in my life. Life is full of ups and downs for if it is any other way we would become stagnant. I know people who just cling to that happiness boat and their lives are utterly meaningless, at least to me. I could have done without the profanity but the message is a great one. Thank you for posting this!

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      1. Yes, I am so smart! How are you? I’m here very secretly, away from my husband’s eyes to my shame, and just needing desperately to write and connect in an attempt to diminish the daily hurt of the consequences of falling on love here, like an idiot and now being heartbroken but writing, I think, better than ever.

        I’m a bit of a mess but still Charming and irresistible 💋

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