When I do something for you, I’m not doing it for you, I’m doing it for me. “Charity is really self-interest disguised under the form of altruism” Anthony de Mello Awareness
My life today depends on being of service. Not only am I self employed in a service oriented profession, I have integrated a desire to be helpful and generous wherever possible. The most important realization to me about this is, that it truly is selfishness that is behind it. By recognizing and admitting that, I am relieved of the urge to pat myself on the back. It’s just something I have to do today. I must give back in measure of what has been freely given to me.
This is, in case you were wondering, the last installment on principles to live by. (For me in particular) Service is the principle behind the 12th step from Alcoholics Anonymous. In the book this is where it describes how by sharing our experience with recovery from alcoholism/addiction, we are able to stay sober/clean.
I am of the mind that I can take this idea and incorporate it into the entire way I am. Looking for and finding ways I can be helpful. Being generous with my time money and acquisitions. Listening when someone is speaking, without formulating a response before they’re finished. And most of all acknowledging and expressing gratitude when someone is helpful to me.
We only begin to realize in this life who and whose we truly are when we come to the place where sharing our incredible gift is our most selfish pleasure. All the best to you brother and to us all as we learn together to share this unspeakable gift of being.
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Thank you, David. It’s astounding to me how absolutely unaware of myself I was and at the same time, incredibly self-absorbed.
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This may be our natural bent, and it certainly beats un-enlightened self-interest, but I believe we’re called to go beyond it, to learn true selflessness.
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Unselfconscious
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Your comment on my blog the other day was of service to me bc what you brought up started a chain reaction for a new story I’m now working on that has a message I like as well as being horrific and entertaining. Thank you
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The highest form of help we can give is that which we are unaware of, by just being ourselves, dancing our dance. I look forward to it!
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We need more people like you in this world. What an inspiring post and a great read! I have no words except thank you!
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🙏🏼💐thank you so much
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