Continuing with my venture into describing principles acquired, developed, learned, what have you, recovering from addiction. It is my assertion that the 12 steps and the order they are in, are divinely inspired. All of the previous steps and principles are needed to make progress to the next.
So we’re at step 8. Made a list of all the people we harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.
Old timers say that the principle here is brotherly love, there seems to be a bit of debate about this as I have seen a few others. Willingness, discipline among others. I contend that it truly is Love.
I have realized that what I do to or for others I inflict or provide to myself. My spirit is damaged or enriched by the actions I take toward others. Even just in thought.
If I am to heal my being and become a decent human, able to interact and function in society. I must be rid of the hurt I have caused myself and others. Writing down the names of those I have harmed and becoming willing to bridge the chasm created by my behavior is an imperative exercise on the road to recovery.
Contemplating the love of God is invaluable in this undertaking. God knows my heart and all of my history and Loves me. I must do, be that love to work through this.
I’m always thankful that God knows our hearts! Wow this photo is super on your blog! I love your share! I know it’s tender so I want to honor it without too many words! 🙂 ♡♡
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Words are wholly insufficient ❤️
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I consider it words blah blah blah in the moment of knowing…I live for those moments. I blah a lot. I’m trying to hold my words but it’s hard! ♡
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I am still kind of selfish and hurt. To me, Step 8 means creating a peace of mind. Maybe by the time I actually reach this step I will think differently 🙂
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yes getting all of the debris from the wreckage cleared away does bring peace ❤
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Mr. Vapor: you have indeed described a powerful truth that in acting towards others either good or bad is an effect that comes right back on us. Thank you again for your posts.
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Thank you for your kind words. It is all just my experience and a relationship with God, disiring to do His will 🙏🏼💐
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I’m addicted to kind words and compliments here on WordPress and I notice that you seem to be a good source of them, so I’ve come to get my fix. 🙂
I love the way your words here are so heartfelt and genuine. Blessings on you as you travel this path, my brother.
Kindness – Robert.
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If there is no heat, only absence of heat, no dark, but only absence of light, let us practice kindness and refrain from the absence 🙏🏼💐
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*no cold*
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I was wondering how you were going to handle a demand to feed an addiction. 🙂
Aside from that I think you meant to say ‘no cold, only absence of heat’ I got to say that I am very impressed by what you did there – well done.
And yes, indeed – we must practice and practice, and in this way we will each find our own perfection.
Hope you’re having a great day. 🙂
Gassho – Robert.
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I will not be handling anything. I am not the source. I will do “my dance” and if you are helped by it great, if not great. The best help I can be it that which I am not conscious of.
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Love this! God bless.
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🙏🏼💐 Thank you so much 😊
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Thank you for following & for liking my page. Have an awesome day!!! 😊
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My pleasure and same to you 😊
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That is quite a generous offer. I’m interested, allow me to ponder and pray 🙏🏼 I will request link when ready
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